xmas gifts

So I don't really have anything interesting to write today. I just felt like I hadn't updated in a while, so I should hop on and say something.

I find it interesting that my sister sends out specific x-mas gift lists. Most of the time, when people (i.e., my mother) ask what I want, I'll give general ideas: some storage boxes, new socks, winter gloves, etc. My sister, however, sends out a list with specific references - links to the exact coat she wants from JCPenny's, with size and color already chosen. This year her list consisted of about 5 tops, a jacket, 2 or 3 pairs of shoes, and a laptop bag.

For some reason, I just can't get into that type of gift list. When I give a gift, I want it to show that I thought about the person for whom I bought it, and it also says something about me. So if she said she wanted a top, I'd look on Etsy for a handmade top that I thought would match her style, but also goes along with my ideals of supporting other crafters. If I buy her the top from Penny's, I know she'll like it (because she picked it out), but my part in the gift-giving is essentially gone.

In some cases, this type of specificity is good, for example a specific movie or CD. But in general, I kinda frown upon it. Maybe that's why my hubby says I'm so difficult to shop for.

I'd love to hear people's thoughts on this! What type of lists do you make? Or do you just let people surprise you?